I am a Halloween loving atheist witch. I have been openly queer since 2003, though my labels have evolved as I've learned more about myself. I currently identify with being genderqueer, demiromantic, panromantic, and queer. My pronouns are they/them, e/em, and it/its I have been practicing relationship anarchy/open polyamory since 2003. I have partners of a wide variety around the country. I am a parent of two incredible adult children, whom I homeschooled from birth through graduation. I was born and raised a Michigander Troll, before relocating to Colorado to raise my spawn. In 2025, I settled back in my hometown!

I have studied sexuality, gender, and relationship styles since I was in high school, back in 2000. I have studied psychology and sociology around sexuality, gender, relationship styles, and subcultures. I have been teaching sexuality education and providing sex & relationship coaching since 2010. I have developed several coaching programs to help folks reclaim their identity, embrace their sexuality, and unlearn toxic patterns - including purity culture, toxic masculinity, gender roles, cisnormativity, and heteronormativity.

I believe everyone deserves to experience their sexuality, gender, and relationships in a way that feels authentic to them. I support the idea that caregivers are the first educators in a child's life, and do not think that ends when a child goes off to school. I will help you be the sex educator your child deserves!

I coach health care providers on how to better serve their clients by teaching them about the LGBTQIA+ community and alternative lifestyles. I work to help providers in creating a welcoming office as well as affirming paperwork for client files, and teaching them to provide more affirming care for their clients.