Who We Are
Ghost Nightmare – they/it/e – they/them, it/its, e/em
- Founder of Alphabet Soup LLC.
- Certified Sexuality & Relationship Educator
- Certified Relationship Coach
- Certified Sex Coach
Bio:
Ghost has studied sexuality, gender, and relationship styles since 2001. They have studied psychology and sociology around sexuality, gender, relationship styles, and subcultures. They have been teaching sexuality education and relationship coaching since 2010. They have developed several coaching programs to help folks reclaim their identity, embrace their sexuality, and unlearn toxic patterns – including purity culture, toxic masculinity gender roles, cisnormativity, and heteronormativity.
Ghost believes everyone deserves to experience their sexuality, gender, and relationships in a way that feels authentic to them. They support the idea that caregivers are the first educators in a child’s life, and do not think that ends when the child goes off to school. They will help you be the sex educator your child deserves!
Ghost has been practicing ethical non-monogamy since 2003, and helps coach health care providers on how to better serve their clients by learning about the LGBTQIA+ community and alternative lifestyles. Ghost helps providers in creating a welcoming office as well as affirming paperwork and client files, as well as affirming care for their clients.
Specializations:
- Coaching & education in sex positive parenting
- Reclaiming your sexuality & gender identity
- Disentangling your household
- Unlearning purity culture.
Certifications:
Ghost received their certification as a sexuality and relationship educator through Everyone Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) in 2019. They received their certification in providing both age-appropriate sexuality & relationship education and LGBTQIA+ affirming care through Essential Access Health in 2021. They received their certification as a relationship coach, sex coach, and love coach through Loveology University in 2021.
Stacia Keanne – she/her
- Certified Relationship Coach
- Jealousy Management Educator
- Alternative Lifestyles Educator
Bio:
Stacia (pronounced Stay-shuh) has been involved in non-monogamy since 2004 and involved in BDSM since 2008. She organized TNG (The Next Generation) events in both Oklahoma City and Denver between 2009 and 2016. She started teaching kink courses in 2011. She has been on staff with the Denver Sanctuary since 2013 and volunteers at many other local events. She has been co-producing the Right of the Slash Intensive weekend since 2018. She has been teaching a jealousy management class since 2019 and provides specific coaching to help folx gain jealousy management skills in more specific areas. She started teaching with Alphabet Soup in fall of 2020.
Stacia has experience in coaching folx in polyamorous relationship dynamics, D/s dynamics, and kink negotiations. She co-produces an entire weekend dedicated to s-types (Right of the Slash Intensive weekend).
She is well versed in helping people understand how their drivers interact with the drivers of their partner(s), and how to navigate those drivers while taking responsibility for one’s own needs.
Specializations:
- Coaching & education in D/s dynamics
- Non-hierarchical polyamorous relationships
- Decoupling
- Jealousy management skills
Certifications:
Stacia received her certification as a relationship coach through Loveology University in 2021.
Taynix – he/they/it
- Artist
- Discord Assistant
Bio:
Taynix helps run and manage our youth Discord server. They work to keep our Discord server running smoothly with, while welcoming each new person, deescalating any conflict that arises, and ensuring each person maintains our standards of behavior to keep our group as safe as possible. He helps run our live youth classes, virtually, and now in-person. It is the artist behind a large portion of our pride merch, specifically our animal puns.
Specializations:
They are on a youth panel with Alphabet Soup, to give a teen perspective on sex education needs. It is working to expand our coaching to provide peer-led groups – coming later in 2025.