• R – Revocable

• Can I revoke my consent? Am I okay with someone else revoking their consent?

• If there is not safety to change your mind, you can not give consent.

• E – Engaged

• Are all parties engaged about this?

• Hesitation, doubt, and coercion are not consent.

• A – Aware

• Are we all aware? Is everyone sober? Are we aware of our own risk-profiles?

• Sleeping and any substance use eliminate your ability to give consent.

• D – Detailed

• Did we come to an agreement on the specific details? Were risk-profiles discussed?

• You have to know the details of what you are consenting to in order to give consent.

• Y – Yes

• Do we each want to say yes? Is there safety to say no?

• Anything other than a yes, is an automatic no.

**If there is not safety in saying "no", consent can not be given. If the answer to any of the above questions is no, you can not give or get consent.